Saturday, 28 January 2012

The Power Of Will Power !!!!



"YOUR WILL POWER WILL MAKE YOUR DESTINY" !!!!!!

Everyone try his or her best to achieve what he or she wants but sometimes we get more than we deserve and sometimes less than it . But what we really want we never go through. Let we decide what we want, what we will get and what we really deserve. Now come to wishes, sometimes we wish very simple like to have a nice coffee, a nice dress or to go with friends, to enjoy our time by doing the most favorite activity but sometimes we wish something really worthwhile like to establish a successful business, or to have a very good job in multinational company, or to buy a new car or house whenever we want, or go to world tour etc.


These are small as well as large wishes that we go through everyday either in reality or in fantasy. What we can do now is to change our wishes into our wills so that we can reach the impossible ones. I call it impossible because such wishes need a lot of hard work and planning to come true like to become a businessman or buy a new house, although it requires a lot of money too but it doesn't mean that we stop wishing because we have the power to make the impossible as possible by our own ‘Will Power’. Yes its Will Power that can helps a lot while reaching to impossible. Will Power is the only thing that can covert your Wish into your Will. 


Now I want to tell you how to ‘Use’ your ‘Will Power’ because it can make your life either successful or unsuccessful. If you directs it in a ‘Positive Direction’ , you will definitely go through ‘Success’ but if you directs it in the opposite direction means a ‘ Negative Direction’ so you definitely go through the worst of it. Now its your choice either ‘YOU’ want to use it as in a good sense to bring you dreams ‘The Impossible’ come true or to use it in a negative sense so you will have the worst side of it.



Its true that ‘Will Power’ can turns the ‘Impossible into Possible’ because your inner self get a lot of energy through this ‘Will Power’ of which you are unaware. Yes its our inner self that gets a lot of support from ‘Will Power’ due to which you become ‘Mentally Prepared’ to go through the ‘Impossible’ and to turns the wishes into wills, the ‘Possible in Possible’ and to face your ‘Hidden Fears’ easily no matter how tough if is, it all become very easier for ‘You’ because you have a strong ‘inner self ‘ which gets a lot of support through your ‘Positive Will Power’ 

Now its your choice to become strong by using your ‘Positive Will Power’ and to use your ‘Negative Will Power’, well the difference between these two is that in Positive Will Power ‘You’ have the Power not only to ‘Change Yourself’ but also to ‘Change the World’ as in Negative Will Power ‘You’ are be unable to succeed because your ‘Negative Will Power’ is directly related to your ‘Negative Thoughts’ which can mirrors your daily life experiences and circumstances easily.

 In short, If your frame of mind is going in ‘Negative Direction, then definitely you will have‘ The Negative Will Power’ and If your frame if mind is going in ‘Positive Direction’ then you will definitely have ‘Positive Will Power’ because your ‘Will Power’ is directly related to your daily life thinking and your imagination. Your ‘Positive Thinking is your ‘Positive Will Power’ and Negative Thinking is your ‘Negative Will Power’ and its your choice to hold your ‘Positive Will Power for Success or to hold Negative Will Power to Lost everything you ever have’. So its easier to have success by following your ‘Positive Will Power’ instead of the ‘Negative One’ that will bring you in the world of ‘Darkness’ And finally through this ‘Positive Will Power’ ‘You’ can change your ’Wish into your Will’. Now let you decide what you really wants !!!!! 







                                                                                                                  

                                                                                                                      Maria Batool
                                                                                                                      27th Jan 2012  
                                                                                                                      Saturday





Copyright, Jan 2012

Wednesday, 25 January 2012

LET YOU DISCOVER YOURSELF NOW !!!!!



“Thousands of geniuses live and die undiscovered either by themselves or by others”

Mark Twain   
     
As this saying keeps our attention that what ‘we are’ and what we ‘can be’, either we have discovered ourselves or living a life which is still undiscovered. Let ‘You’ discover yourself now by going through some important and necessary levels of life which will help you to reach your ‘Actual Self’ which is worthwhile and might be undiscovered.

 As the famous Psychologist 'Abraham Maslow' point out in his 'Maslow Hierarchy of Needs' that all human begins always go through five levels of needs from birth till death. The first level is the 'Need for food, water and warmth' which are known as 'Physiological Needs' that are necessary for living. The second level includes 'Need for Safety' which is known as 'Security Need' .As everyone also needs security of his or her good future after the Physiological needs. The third level includes 'Need for Belonging' which is known as 'Need for Love' in which everyone wants a loving family, supporting friends and an intimate partner to whom one can belong himself. The fourth level includes 'Need for Esteem' which means to have 'Self Esteem', 'Self Confidence', 'Respect for Others' and 'Achievement'.
  
The Fifth and the Last level includes 'Self Actualization' which means to reach at the level where You can actually explore your 'Real Self' and for the 'Real Purpose' for which you are created and for which you are here. In short, Maslow tries his best to explain that when we came in this world we slowly and gradually go through these levels one by one, when our first need (level) is fulfill we move to second level and when the second is satisfied we move for third and then fourth and after the satisfaction of fourth level we finally reach to the last and the most important level that is to reach at the Self Actualization. 

 According to Maslow, Self Actualization is the level where one can explore his ‘Real Self’ and ‘Real Purpose of Life’ for which he or she is 'Created' and 'Sent' in this world. Because at this level one can reach his or her full potential and can realize it as well as one can become the person what he or she actually ‘Capable of Becoming’. Once a person who reach at this level will be able to find the actual ‘Meaning and Purpose’ of his or her life.

Now I want to add here something,Yes we all go through these three or four levels but we never go through the Fifth level even we never think about it. As we came in this world we follow our elder's and old systems but don't think out of the box. Just do whatever our elder's or teacher's learn us and never think beyond it. That’s why we never reach to the Fifth level where we would be able know for what purpose we are actually here and what is the Best and Unique in us that others have not.

 Yes its true that 'Everyone' in this world has something best and extraordinary inside his or her own self and no one can take it because its all 'God Gifted'. Due to which one can access easily to the actual ‘Goal of Life’ and Maslow's theory explains the same by the progression and satisfaction of each level one by one.
So its time to judge your self who ‘You’ are and who ‘You’ must be, why ‘You’ are here and what is the best in ‘You’ which others lack and ‘You’ are ‘Blessed’ .Something that should be proud off or must be appreciable for ‘You’ only. Now its your turn to explore your self and your own uniqueness which is hidden inside ‘You’ and reach to your self actualization level so that ‘You’ will be very satisfied by knowing your ‘Reason of Living’ here and the ‘Purpose of  your Creation’. 



Go ahead be the one whom ‘You’ are capable of becoming because ‘You’ have the best of it. And always remember everyone is blessed with a unique quality just explore it so ‘You’ can reach your actual Self and will become the one which ‘You’ really Deserve and Must be. Now judge yourself who You are ‘Now’ and what You ‘Can be’ and remember ,be the one who YOU can be in the best manner . Good Luck!!!!!


                                                                                                           Maria Batool
                                                                                                           25th Jan 2011
                                                                                                           Wednesday
Copyright,Jan-2011


Sunday, 22 January 2012

Happy Life

Everyone around us want to live a "Happy Life" with whatever problems and circumstances he or she is facing.In today's world its a big deal to put back your worries and smile even when you are in pain. Well we all have to do this if we really want a happy life . No matter what problems are coming in our lives we must have to "Stand Up" and face it by our own will and strong desire to overcome the problem by facing it and by positive thinking with inner peace which works a lot in solving any kind of problem like personal,social,educational, business as well as family problems.


Its our own inner peace that makes us able to face our problems with maturity and abilities. Its important for all of us to have a good Physical Health but in the same manner its also necessary to have Good Mental Health as a a popular saying 'A healthy minds needs a healthy body' but I want to add something in this saying that 'A healthy mind needs a healthy body and inner peace too which makes the connection of healthy mind and healthy body equally and efficiently.


So  what we really want to solve our daily life problems is the Inner Peace which gives good mental and physical relaxation as well satisfaction. Another important thing that makes you strong is to fight with our own negative thoughts and come your mind in the time of crises and indirectly try to break you will power , so you must have to fight with your own negative thoughts whenever they came and replace it with the positive ones. In short, replace your negative thoughts with the positive ones and then see how well you become able to solve you any kind of problem whatever it is. Just focus on the Positive aspect of the situation then you will be able to fight with your biggest problem either personal,social,educational, business as well as family problems.



Once you follow these some techniques you will be able to solve any of you problem very quickly and easily.
It really works if anyone of you are unhappy with your life just try it and you will feel the difference within two or three days. If you try this please give feedback to me. These are some techniques of Happy Life which are very cheaper and workable.


                                                                                                                                 
                                                                                                    Maria Batool
                                                                                                    22-Jan-2011
                                                                                                    Sunday