Sunday, 19 February 2012

Don't Escape From Your Problem




 

Do the thing you fear most and the death of fear is certain.
Mark Twain




 Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
Jim Morrison



In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure.
Bill Cosby


 The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time.
Mark Twain


So what are thinking now...... just face your fear to solve your ever biggest problem as all known and successful personalities has describe the same by sharing their own experience.
Let you decides what you want......!!!!!!



                                                                                                Maria Batool
                                                                                                19th Feb 2012
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Thursday, 16 February 2012

Be Good To Yourself




No Matter From What Circumstances 'You' Are Going Through........But Always 'Be Good To Yourself '



Because it will provide you 'Inner Satisfaction' and 'Peace of Mind' which helps you a lot to enhance your 'Will Power' and use it when you really need it to fight with tough times. A single step towards yourself can give 'You' a lot of success and courage to 'Overcome' all the circumstances you are facing alone.




                                                                                                         Maria Batool
                                                                                                        16th Feb 2012
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Wednesday, 15 February 2012

Because Yor Are Unique !!!!!

"A human being is a single being. Unique and unrepeatable"
Eileen Caddy



Yes its true that every human being is 'Unique' and 'Different' from every other human beings. Its also true that everyone is blessed with some 'Uniqueness' which one have in excess but others lacks. It can be your 'Creativity', your 'Will Power' , your 'Power of Imagination' , your 'Unique Ideas', your 'Unique Dreams' and anything that you really 'Wish' and 'Try' your best to 'Master' it, is definitely your 'Unique Quality'.

As we grow as unique persons, we learn to respect the uniqueness of others.

And always remember as 'You' are 'Unique' in the same sense the person next to 'You' is also have his or her 'Own Uniqueness' whatever it is 'You' must have to pay 'Respect' for that 'Uniqueness' because when 'You' will pay 'Respect' to others 'Uniqueness' the 'You' will get 'Respect for your 'Own Uniqueness' by others as well. Its just like 'Give and Take Rule'


An its a 'Rule of  Uniqueness' that 'Never Compare Yourself With Others' because 'You' are 'Unique' and 'You' have that 'Unique Quality' which you have to 'Explore' and then show it to 'All Over The World'
But 'Explore' it first and then 'Excess' it as much as you can because its your 'Uniqueness'


"A good voice isn't so important. It's more important to sound really unique".
Stephen Malkmus



So focus on your 'Uniqueness now because it will give you a 'New Meaning of Life' and a way in which you can excess easily not because of regular concern but because of your 'Unique Quality'
Let You Explore it and then Enjoy the New Journey of Uniqueness.........!!!!
                      
    
                                                                                                  Maria Batool
                                                                                                  15th Feb 2012
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Tuesday, 14 February 2012

Don't Hurt Yourself Anymore

"I don't believe in guilt, I believe in living on impulse as long as you never intentionally hurt another person, and don't judge people in your life. I think you should live completely free".
Angelina Jolie



Its for 'You' People....
I just want to say "Never Love Someone who doesn't Love You" 
Because it will in return just give 'You' a lot of 'Regret' and 'Hard feelings'
So take a distance from that person whom you love but he or she doesn't.......
And 'Love' only the person who can 'Understands' you and 'Care' for you when 'You' feel alone among the variety people.
Let 'You' decides 'You' want to 'Hurt' yourself or 'You' want to find 
A True Lover!!!!!



 

I don't have nothing to regret at all in the past, except that I might've unintentionally hurt somebody else or something.
Jimi Hendrix


"It can happen from your side as well which can badly hurt the another person"
So never play with someone's emotions and feelings because you can give him or her those 'Hard Feelings' which he or she never wants and expects from 'You'. And it can happen with 'You as well.
Be-aware of these sensitives issues. Its all about your 'Happy Life'.


                                                                                          Maria Batool
                                                                                          14th Feb 2012
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Monday, 13 February 2012

Never Quit.........!!!!!!!

"The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather a lack of will".
Vince Lombardi


Its all your 'Own Will' that leads 'You' to success and all the other things are meaningless because 'Your Will' will give you only the 'Strength', 'Knowledge' but also the 'Courage' to go through 'Risks' and the 'Believe on Oneself'. Its your 'Own Will' that actually prepares you for a successful journey of life in which 'You' can never be defeated if 'You' have the 'Will To Win'




"You can give in to the failure messages and be a bitter deadbeat of excuses. Or you can choose to be happy and positive and excited about life".
A.L. Williams 
 
As you can see in the above picture one man 'Quit' and turn back from very close to his 'Destiny' while the other man is going very willingly towards his 'Destiny' because he has a strong 'Will To Win' and he has chosen the 'Happy and Positive Side' of life and the other man has chosen the 'Deadbeat Of Excuses' in which he has the 'Negative Assumptions' with him. As the one who have chosen 'Positive Assumptions'  is able to reach his 'Destiny' without any hurdles or problems.
 
  "All who have accomplished great things have had a great aim, have fixed their gaze on a goal which was high, one which sometimes seemed impossible".
Orison Swett Marden
 
So its all about your own way of 'Willing To Success' no  one can bring your success until and unless 'You' stand up for it and try your best to achieve it. So now its your turn to make your assumptions 'Positive' if you want to have a 'Good Will' towards 'Success otherwise your "Negative Assumptions' will give you the 'Bad Will' of losing your 'Destiny'
 
Magic is believing in yourself, if you can do that, you can make anything happen." 
Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe
 
......Let 'You' Decides........Good Luck
 
 
                                                                                                        Maria Batool
                                                                                                        13th Feb 2012
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Sunday, 12 February 2012

What You Learn From Your Failure????

"A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at him".   


Success is the only thing that we 'Dream' with 'Open Eyes' everyday directly or indirectly but for success it really very important to see your success through your 'Eyes', your each and every step must be a next step towards success. Infact its your own ideas and creativity that can make you as successful as other can never. Use your own mind,skills,potential and new ideas which one never did. As its not at all necessary to follow the path through which others have gone to success because it was their own path which they build for themselves not for 'You' . Build 'Your' own path for your own success because its your turn now.
  
Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other.   



As it your own 'Success' so 'You' have to 'Step Ahead' for it , no one can bring your success unless and until 'You' Stand Up' for it and do 'Your' own 'Efforts' for 'Success' . When 'You' yourself starts working on your success 'You' actually going towards your success as speedily as others are unable to do for you at all. Because its your 'Own Success',  your 'Own Life' your 'Own Efforts' for your 'Own Comfort'

Belief in oneself is one of the most important bricks in building any successful venture.
Lydia M. Child





Its also very important for 'You' to have 'Faith' on 'Yourself' , to believe on your 'Efforts' and to 'Hope' 
 If you are unable to 'Believe Yourself' then no one can believe 'You' at all. So 'Believe' at 'Yourself' and 'Your Efforts' too as it will lead you to your 'Success' and it will also give others a 'Defeat' Believe at 'Your Own Efforts' just as others really lacks it ,so that 'You' can go through it easily and fastly


 



Defeat is not the worst of failures. Not to have tried is the true failure.
George Edward Woodberry



Don't ever be 'Afraid Of Failure' because your every trial is your next step towards your 'Experience' and towards your 'Success'. If you 'Fail' however you learn what lacks for 'Success' and then in next trial you will be able overcome that lacks earlier, so your each and every trial will lead you to your actual 'Success' with an experience of "how to go through 'Success' when you face failure". Yes its your own 'Experience' that leans you 'How to become successful when you failed'. So keep 'Trying and Trying Again' because its a key to 'Success' not the 'Defeat' at all.

Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success.
Dale Carnegie
  
So your 'Failure' is actually your way to 'Success' .So never disappoint of your 'Failure' because it gives you an opportunity to learn it again and again to do it as perfectly as others never can. So never be afraid of you failure because your failure actually brings your success in return when you starts trails again and again.
So it 'Your Own Choice' that what 'You' learn from your 'Failure' your 'Success' or your 'Defeat' Let 'You decides........Good Luck
Failure is success if we learn from it.
Malcolm Forbes
                                                                                                        Maria Batool
                                                                                                        12th Feb 2012
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Saturday, 11 February 2012

Face Your Fears Now !!!!


 
In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure.
Bill Cosby

As all of us want to succeed in life so its really important to 'Face The Fear' which is hindering your success because when you face your fear you will be able to success properly otherwise if you will ignore or hide yourself from your fears then you will never get success even you can't live peacefully. So its important for us to face our each and every fear related to our success, career, happiness,job, marriage and bright future.
 
 "Expose yourself to your deepest fear, after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free".
Jim Morrison
  

Yes
its true that when you expose yourself in front of your biggest fear you actually overcome it when you 'Stand Up' to face it, your biggest fear vanish at the time when 'You' decides to face it with all your physical and mental power. Your 'Will Power' is your greatest supporter when you Stand Up to face the fear. You will never lose until and unless to think to lose it.








 
Do the thing you fear most and the death of fear is certain.
Mark Twain

Now, think once what actually fears you the most?
When you came to realize it just 'Stand Up' to face it with all your power,your courage and then never quit because you never know how near you are to get success or overcome that fear forever. Once 'You' will face it , it will never FEARS you again. That's the key to go ahead and to get your desired success or whatever you actually want from your life.
 





The greatest barrier to success is the fear of failure.
  
   Sven Goran Eriksson

And never fear for failure because if 'You' failed 'You' will have an experience which will lead you to more trials as every failure is a little mistake which can be right by doing it again and again and in case if 'You' will succeed then you will be able to learn others the same thing "Face Your Fears Now'!!!!
Good Luck




                                                                                                                Maria Batool
                                                                                                                10th Feb 2012
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Thursday, 9 February 2012

ILLUSION......... Your Own Perception


Look At This Picture and then 'Count' the 'Bricks'




How many you have counted?

a) 3  b)4  c)7  (3+4)

What is the correct answer?


The answer to this question is 'If one can see this picture from right side he or she will be able to see 4 bricks and If one can see the same picture from the left side he or she can see 3 bricks and If one can see this picture form both sides he or she can see 7 bricks together. 




Yes its just the way 'You' decide to think about , its relies on your own perception as well your direction, If 'You' can see the same picture with three different results then its not other than anything but 'ILLUSION' 

 



Yes its 'Illusion' which can give you three different answer of one single question and the amazing thing is that all answer's are 'True' because 'Illusion' itself is a 'Difference of Perception'. No one can have same perception as every individual have different perceptions and they all are true if we can see and understands it from their side. 




The same happens with us when we don't understand the perception of another person and just thought that he or she is unable to understand ours , no its not the problem the actual problem is that the another person is also right according to his or her own perception. As you can see in the above picture both mans are right because of difference in their own perception. 




So try to understand another person from his or her own perception so that it will be helpful for you to solve your problem or misunderstanding that lies due to these changes of perception. As this picture easily describes that there are 3 bricks at one side and 4 on another, just due to 'Illusion Effects' which play an important role in one's perception of understanding things.



Let 'You' understands others perception from their side,If you want to solve your any kind of problem either social,political,moral,ethical,educational and personal problems as well.
It will surely help you out. Good Luck.






                                                                                                 Maria Batool
                                                                                                 9th Feb 2012
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Tuesday, 7 February 2012

There Is No End ........!!!!!!



Every Day Is A New Beginning



We always end our day with some worries and some happiness and then sleep with an unending 'Hope' to go through the worries one day and get the actual 'Destiny' . Well its all true because when we slowly and gradually face our worries and keep 'Hope' with us to solve them sooner or later then one by one our worries become lesser and lesser, its not due to the passage of time but it is actually because we face it with 'New Hopes' , actually its our 'New Hopes' that gives us 'Energy' and Will power' to face the worries in different and make it easier for us. 



That's why keep 'Hoping' and 'Facing Fears'  will never let 'You' down, neither 'You' nor  your 'Efforts' . Infact If you somehow lost something very precious and feel bad about that loss so keep 'Hopes' with you not to get back that lost thing but in order to get back a more precious gift in return , because you never know what you really 'Deserve'. 



So never lose your 'Hopes' whatever good or bad happened to 'You', you just have to keep hoping and there is no end for any 'New Beginning', If you have lost your 'Hope' due to some bad experiences or due to some mishaps, no matter 'Why' just ,'Stand Up' again with 'New Hopes' because its not too late and whenever you have a 'New Day' its means you have a 'New Hope' as "Every Day is a New Beginning"

 

    




                                                                                              Maria Batool
                                                                                              7th Feb'2012
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Monday, 6 February 2012

What You Want ' Success Or Failure ' ????





 Winston Churchill

Yes its all true, I am talking about ‘Positive and Negative Thinking’
People who have a ‘Negative Frame of Mind’ can easily refuse to the ‘Opportunities of Life’ even they slowly and gradually destroy their lives and people who have ‘Positive Frame Of Mind’ can easily bear the ‘Difficulties of Life’  even they slowly and gradually face their toughest ‘Problem of Life’ with their Positive Frame of Mind.

And the most interesting thing about ‘Negative Thinking’ is that it comes before ‘Positive Thought’ whatever bad happened with anyone, he or she first thinks ‘Negatively’ about the whole situation and then takes a wrong decision to overcome it by repeating the whole situation negatively in front of others as well. But here I can differentiate between ‘Pessimistic’ and Optimistic’ people. A pessimist will see the whole situation as a ‘Life Time Accident’ and an optimist will see the whole situation as a ‘Little Incidence’ that can happened with everyone even the optimist will overcome it in a few minutes as compared pessimist who will never overcome it due to their ‘Negative Frame of Mind’


 
Yes its our own ‘Thinking’ which can lead us to overcome a problem and at the same time it can also lead us to make a problem actually ‘A Problem’. Its just the difference of Thinking that can solve a problem or can make a problem ‘A Problem’. Thinking can also be referred to as our own ‘Energy’ which can be ‘Negative or Positive’. If you have ‘Positive Energy’ then you are able to produce ‘Positive Radiations’ in our surroundings and if you have ‘Negative Energy’ then you will be able to produce ‘Negative Radiations’ in your surroundings. So its ‘You’ who can make your surroundings better or worst by making the difference of ‘Energy Radiations’ means your own ‘Thinking’.



 Its all the same but there only difference of ‘Energy’ your ‘Positive Energy’ will lead you to your ‘Life Time Success’ and your ‘Negative Energy’ will lead you to your ‘Life Time Problems and Regrets’ because pessimist people always lose the ‘Opportunities’ and optimists people always avail not every Opportunity but every ‘Difficulty’ too. Its because they have the ‘Power’ of facing such problems which pessimist people lacks easily so they always avoid they difficulties to face and the opportunities to avail. Its all just due to a ‘Difference of Thinking’ that really make a ‘Life Time Difference’ in the lives, success and failure of people.

Now its your own choice either you want to use your ‘Energy’ for your ‘Success’ or for your ‘Failure’, the choice is all yours because its your life, your success and your failure.
Let You Decides………!!!!!

“There is little difference in people, but that little difference makes a big difference. The little difference is attitude. The big difference is whether it is positive or negative.


 W. Clement Stone 



                                                                                                  Maria Batool
                                                                                                  6th Feb 2012
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Wednesday, 1 February 2012

Let Your Dream Come True !!!!!


“Throw your dreams into space like a kite, and you do not know what it will bring back: a new life, a new friend, a new love, a new country”.

Anais Nin

Dreams are the actual ‘Hopes of Life’ , the one who can ‘Hope’ is the one who can ‘Dream’ because when you lose your ‘Hope’ you actually lose your ‘Dream’. That’s why Dreaming is the essence of one’s life. You cannot separate your ‘Hopes’ with your ‘Dreams’. As they both are directly related to each other infact ‘Hope’ is the first step towards ‘Dreaming’.


 
Dreams can be seen with ‘Close Eyes’ but the actual ‘Life Time Dreams’ are always seen with ‘Open Eyes’. The difference between these two dreams is that ‘the dream we see through Close Eyes are not related to reality of life but actually they are a function and a part of our subconscious mind’ . It is so because ‘The Experiences and Memories which we forget or that might be vanished from our memory are directly goes into the subconscious mind, where they remain unrecalled. But our subconscious mind can recall it in ‘Dreams’ whenever possible.

  Yes its our subconscious mind which collects the memories of all days ,weeks, months even years and recall it in any Dream, due to which most of the people got confused with their ‘Dreams’ because their present dreams are related to their past experiences but actually the subconscious mind do all this in a disguised form by representing it in one’s dream. It can be said that these ‘Dreams’ are ‘Unconscious Dreams’ which are directly related to ‘Fantasy of Life’ and has no meaning because all these are actually not a part of reality.


The ‘Real Dreams’ are those which we see through ‘Open Eyes’ and these ‘Dreams’ are directly related to the reality of life and are a part of our ‘Conscious Mind’. We all see these ‘Dreams’ with ‘Open Eyes’ which means we ‘Dreamed’ in our Consciousness. So these ‘Dreams’ are in a ‘Proper Form’ and we ‘Consciously Dreamed’ them. Its can be said that ‘Conscious Dreams’ are seen with ‘Open Eyes’ and Unconscious Dreams’ are seen with ‘Close Eyes’


But now what we really require is that to ‘Dream With Open Eyes’ because we should ‘Dream’ something which is related to ‘Reality of Life’ not to the ‘Fantasy of Life’ so that we can ‘Achieve’ the ‘Life Time Dream’ which will serve as our own inspiration to going ahead with lights of ‘Hopes’. It is also true that when we ‘Hope’ we actually go through the ‘Dreams’ and when we lose ‘Hope’ we lose the ‘Dreams’ as well. 




Dreaming with Open Eyes is very important because we ourselves knows our Strengths and Weaknesses. We know what we can do ‘Better’ and what we can do in the ‘Best’ manner, so we face reality while ‘Dreaming With Open Eyes’ and when we face reality we actually face the difficulties of ours life.



In short, Whenever you ‘Dream’ try to Dream With Open Eyes because then your Dream will come true and you would have a successful result. One can go through the journey of success by following the ‘Lights of Dreams’. Its our Dreams that gives us ‘Energy’, ’Ideas’, ‘Satisfaction and affcourse a proper way of Success. Infact ‘Dreams’ can be your ‘Best Creation’ which others never imagine.

“We all have our own life to pursue, our own kind of dream to be weaving. And we all have some power to make wishes come true, as long as we keep believing”.

Louisa May Alcott 
 

                                                                                                                Maria Batool
                                                                                                                1st Feb 2012
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